This is the dilemma I used for the first phase of my essay:
"Lacking the capacity for any normal form of rebellion as a young 12/13 year old humanities nerd, I thought it would be interesting to study other religions and choose one for my own. I read all sorts of books with no interference from my parents, who are at least shaky in their Christian faith, but I will never forget when I finally persuaded them to let me buy a Koran. “Its fine to read anything you want,” said my father In a deadly tone I had never heard before “but always remember you are a Christian.” Unfortunately by that time I had already decided I was a Buddhist (though my knowledge of the Dhamma was rather thin) and I was wondering when I should tell my parents. After that incident I shut up. As I learned more about Buddhism however it was clear that I should never ever lie, especially to my parents. I eventually told them the year before I left for college, where it turned out they didn't particularly care!"
When you say 'never ever lie,' do yoou serious mean that, without exception, you should never lie?
ReplyDeleteAh, well no. The adherence to that particular moral injunction isn't so much a belief in itself but a general guide to conduct. In Buddhism there are five moral guidelines that believers keep (relevant page: http://www.accesstoinsight.org/ptf/dhamma/sila/pancasila.html). It's all stuff that often cause social complications or interfere with a person's peace of mind and focus.
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